Happiness, Happy Best October 26, 2009
Posted by mydiamondring in 1.Tags: Albert Schweitzer, happiness, happy best, OrCom, Organizational Communication, UP Manila
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On his last day with us (last class, that is), our professor shared with us the idea of happy best.
It’s being happy even if you don’t please everyone. It’s not being as successful as people think you should be, but being happy because you love what you are doing.
I Google-d happiness just today. Surprisingly, Wikipedia’s page came just second. First was a site on quotes about happiness. (Now, this is SEO). And from that, I got this quote by Albert Schweitzer:
Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.
We’ve always thought that to be happy, we have to be on top. We have to make people believe that yes, we are the best. We have to surpass every bit of challenge that is thrown at us.
But really, is that what it takes to be happy? Is a happy life not equal to a quiet life? Will people not be happy when they have just what they need in life–a family, perhaps some money to live by, and a nice, cozy home?
This is why it saddens me that people are being disappointed when they feel like others are not up to challenges anymore. When they think that their demands are not being met by the very people who have already given a lot. When they think others are ’sinking’.
Let’s go for happy best. Let’s try and be happy even when things are not going our way. Even when things seem to start falling apart.
The Last Person to be in FB October 26, 2009
Posted by mydiamondring in 1.Tags: communication, FB, FTF, OrCom, Organizational Communication, UP Manila
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Laugh. That was my initial reaction when Ms Yolanda Ong of Campaigns & Grey stated (when she gave a speech in the concluded Orcom Conference) that she was determined to be the last person in Facebook (FB).
I laughed because for one, I never expected to hear something like that from someone in the Media field. For another, I was not so sure who between us would actually be the “last” to ever sign up for an FB account.
This is not to disclaim, bash, or attack FB. What I am about to write is the content of Ms Ong’s speech—from as much as I can remember—about the benefits of face-to-face communication (FTF) against an SNS-mediated one.
Point 1: Emotions.
Emotions are difficult to communicate in an SNS account. You can emoticon all you want, but that would not be the same as real frowning or smiling. You can type LOL millions of time, but it can never equal the real sound of your laughter.
Point 2: Feedback.
When communication is in FTF form, feedback comes real in real-time. You get nonverbal cues just as soon as you send a message, cues that may signal whether or not you are getting to the heart of the person you’re talking to. With SNS, what you post in a wall, for example, may take minutes to hours before they are reacted to. And sometimes, you just can never be sure in terms of sincerity.
On Why I Agree With Her
Because we look at FB the same way. HAHA.
No, seriously. I am a person who would rather be listened to than read about. Meaning, I appreciate people taking the time to listen to me more than me taking the time to write to them. There are benefits of writing, I keep blogs myself. But there always things that are best said through words. There are always emotions that self-expression through SNS or blogging just cannot humanize.
On Why I Disagree With Her
Maybe because I’m young and I benefit just as much from the Internet that there are times it becomes hard to imagine life without it.In as much as there are pros to communicating FTF, there are also flaws. Time is of importance here. SNS-mediated sites really reduce the time messages take to be delivered.
And in a changing, fast-paced life as now, we just cannot wait.
K-Invasion September 7, 2009
Posted by mydiamondring in For Sale.Tags: 2ne1, 2NEI1, Fayah, fire, k-pop, OrCom, Organizational Communication, UP Manila
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From TV series, to movies, to fashion, to food, to language.
And now, the Korean craze has invaded pop culture as well. You can hear almost anyone—anywhere—singing to Wonder Girls’ Nobody or dancing to any of 2ne1’s hits.
So we bring you this vlog—our group’s own version of Fire by 2ne1. A parody of the best caliber. A music video casting the best of each participant. HAHA.
We bring you . . . FAYAH.
Enjoy watching!
*** Catch the same vid in youtube. And spread the word!


